Sexual Counselling

This is for you if you're looking to ignite more presence into your love life, explore new dimensions of intimacy, embrace your Masculinity in non-conform ways, and seek guidance on sexual health, trauma release and Tantric awakening. This is for you if you feel like it’s time to invest in your deepest desires and dreams .

Each session is adapted to your individual needs, ensuring a non-judgmental, safer space for exploration where all your feelings are welcomed as catalysts of growth. Whatever your topics might be, your questions and concerns are treated as a source of transformation for body, mind and soul. You are whole, you just want to feel it.

What’s Included in the Counselling:

• Connecting Body and Masculinity: Mindfulness and somatic techniques for increased body awareness.

• Emotional Healing and Trauma Sensitivity: Healing of paralysing blocks created by wounds from the past.

• Self-Reflection and Authenticity: Exploring your patterns, limits and re-defining your own masculinity.

• Turned on in Life: Exploration, conscious Direction and Manifestation with your sexual-creative energy.

• Vulnerability as Strength: Permission to show your feelings and insecurities, free from fear of being shamed.

• Mindfulness in Relationships and Sexuality: Present, assertive communication in moments of intimacy.

Connecting Body and Sexuality

I invite you to explore the depths of physical and emotional presence as keys to a fulfilled sexual experiencing. Let’s ease the mind and open a safe space to feel our heart and pelvis. The connection between our heart and genitals is a deep well for transformation- all from re-directing your own sexual-creative energy.

Overcoming Traumatic Experiences

The body is the last to know: In our work together, I will help you explore the roots of potential sexual blocks, hyperactivity or numbness . Especially after traumatic experiences, e.g. boundary violations in childhood or (sexual) transgression, it is important to gently and respectfully enter the healing process. Through somatic exercises and nervous system regulation, you learn to slowly rebuild trust in your body.

Transparence and Self-Reflection

Healing involves open and honest communication. A book I admire, “Zeit für Männlichkeit” (‘Time for Masculinity’) by Boris von der Wiese, highlights the importance of nonviolent communication and clear boundaries. We will create communication models to make you feel safe and understood in relationships and Journaling (s)exercises will help you organize your thoughts and word your desires.

Somatic Presence Practice:

Let’s simply drop into states of presence and curiosity. I’ll lead you to regain your emotional, sexual and physical presence through body journeys and sexual breathing (sexo-spiritual breathing). These practices are highly powerful and serve to enhance body awareness and release tension from stored past experiences in the pelvic area.

Orgasmic Pelvic Activation:

The pelvic floor plays a key role in holding and releasing sexual energy and has a huge impact on our well-being. As Nick Perry beautifully puts it, “When we learn to move from our center and ground ourselves, we align our energy and connect with the full force of our expression.” Through psycho-somatic exercises of activating the pelvic floor, you will learn how to better channel your energy, free yourself from emotional blocks, ancestral anger and pain and restore your presence in moments of intimacy.